It has been a while since Storm or I updated anything much here but those who have been following him regularly know that we had been planning the first Pride event for our area. Not only did we plan one event, we had to lose our minds for a bit and go for a whole week worth of events. Well we made it through and I have to say that things went pretty well considering. The biggest event, our Festival Day, was a great success and we managed to make people happy. The other events went well too and we are already making contacts with several other organizations and adding a few people to our board who have wonderful ideas and the skills to implement them. Yay us!!
We also got our oldest back to college after her summer break. Teenagers are a pain in the ass. They will make you crazy, frustrate you so badly that you want to strangle them until they grow a brain, and then do something so sweet and thoughtful that you remember why you had kids and loved them enough not to take them out before they got grown. Our son, the middle child and an 18 year old boy (those who have been here can feel our pain) was very high ranking on our kimshee list for a while. Then he calls me yesterday and asks if he can take his little sister to school on her first day of Middle School. He came over yesterday, went through her schedule and all her stuff and gave her all the big brother advice, then shows up at 7am this morning to take her to school. She was glowing (she idolizes her brother and sister) and was actually excited about starting her new school. Made me want to squeeze him till he popped. As badly as they manage to frustrate us with typical kid stuff, I adore my children and am ridiculously proud of them. You will probably get tired of hearing about them eventually..lol.
I am also managing the school stuff fairly well so far. I still say I am a demented masochist for starting a Master’s program right now, but it is being handled (though I am playing hookie writing here instead of working on the paper that is due today).
Oh, and here is a little FYI for those who have an interest in the transition stuff. Don’t ever let yourself (if you are the one going the process) or the one you love go without their T or E respectively for any length of time. Through the Pride craziness, Storm forgot to replace his T patch one morning after his shower and through all the things we had to get done that day, didn’t remember it till the next day. 24 hours without T makes Storm freaking crazy. For the first time in more years than I can count, Storm and I had a major blowout argument, over something stupid, that ended in him yelling and slamming things around until I lost it and screamed at him. Yes, screamed at him. If you knew me, this would be pretty freaking shocking. He snapped out of his freak out when I screamed at him “What the F is wrong with you???”. We both ended up crying, he wound up apologizing all over the place to me and our youngest daughter. While in the midst of the crying apologies I asked him if he ever put his patch back on… hello and bingo. We remedied that situation quickly and I made him set an alarm on his phone so this doesn’t happen again. So be warned…if the hormone levels get out of whack, you or the person you love going through transition will LOSE THEIR FREAKING MIND. Jussayin.
All is better and back to normal, we already have another event coming up through luckily we won’t have to do much planning because it is a simple potluck party for the anniversary of the DADT repeal. It is also time for me to get off here and do some actual work. More info updates soon and I will get Storm to update everyone as well.